Thursday, January 29, 2015

Things We Sacrifice For Happiness

As you could tell from the scarcity of recent posts, spring semester has started. As intense as the past two weeks have been, the past 14 days feel like only five have gone by. I am taking more units this semester and working over time at the job that pays the bills. As much as I would love the continued overtime pay for working six days a week, I had to tell my boss a few days ago that I couldn't continue working that (even though I will still be working 45 hours a week for now.) Less than two weeks into the semester and I was falling behind in my classes already. That just wasn't going to work.

During the years, months, days I was sick, I would think of all the things I wanted to do that I couldn't. Besides the obvious getting healthy & finding a home again, the one thing I wanted to do more than anything first was go back to school. I already had a degree from some years prior, and had continued going to school until 2008. I loved learning, and there were so many things I wanted to accomplish in life. Before I lost everything, I was also already losing a part of myself. I gave up some parts of myself because I thought I was meant to have other things. I know very much now, that is not the case at all. Learning that lesson was very painful, but seeing things in the reality they are now, it was probably one of the best things to happen to me. You can't make something happen if it isn't meant to be, and you wouldn't want something to happen if you know you were meant for something much better. So many things we can't see when we are going through them.

I have 11 and 12 hour days now. I spend Friday nights doing homework, and attempt to go to bed early so that I can get up for work Saturday morning. I have to say "no" a lot more now than I did last semester. Of course I wish there were more hours in the day so that I could have time to do more fun things as well, but I don't feel like I'm missing out on more than if I was able to do them.

I wanted this so, so much during the days when all I could do was dream about what I wanted to do. Doing what I am now feels so good. It feels so amazing to be physically (and mentally, and emotionally) capable to do all of this. By helping myself I can now help others, and continue to grow in both directions. I have sacrificed a lot for happiness, but I am gaining so much more each day.

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Skincare Review: Origins, Lancome, Elizabeth Arden

I have boxes and boxes of samples. Some I get free for testing purposes from Influenster (check out my Influenster badge to your right, or www.influenster.com/MsSamanthaMarie), some I also get free from Sephora being a "VIB", and I also am a Birchbox subscriber: https://www.birchbox.com/invite/samanthamarie

Here's a few recent skincare items I tried out a few times that have stood out in my mind. Please feel free to comment at the bottom or ask me any questions! :)

Origins GinZing
Energy Boosting Moisturizer

Good for day or night use.
Used both, fine to wear under makeup or other skincare treatment.
Didn't notice much difference in skin after a couple uses, but blends in well & has a nice mild scent. 4/5


Lancome Genifique
Youth Activating Concentrate

Says AM & PM under regular skincare routine
Didn't notice much besides decent moisturizing benefit
4/5


Elizabeth Arden
Flawless Future
Ceramide Caplet Serum
Used evening on face & neck
Very light moisture, blends in quick, feels great. Little goes a long way. Still have sample after several uses. Would def buy again. Use easily under other skincare products.
5/5

Monday, January 12, 2015

50 Weeks to a Happier Healthier You - One Small Step Each Week

New Years resolutions can be exciting & overwhelming. Whether it's lose 50 lbs, eat better, go to the gym more, less this, stop that, go here... Breaking things down into smaller easier things can often be a more ideal way for people to stick with their goals long term.


Here are 50 small things you can do, one per week, to help better your health and life. Some things may be easier than other, so I'm breaking them down into groups of 5 that you can choose which one you want to do first - just be sure to do them all before going to the next group.

Step 1: Make room for good things to come
1. Clean your bedroom. You'll be surprised how much more clearer & organized you'll feel to start.
2. Go through your pantry and remove any expired foods.
3. Check your closet. Be honest and get rid of anything you haven't worn in a year or not planning to wear in the next year. Saving one special occasion outfit outside of these parameters is okay.
4. Pick that one corner, room, other closet or huge box you've been dreading to tackle, and then tackle it. Get it over with!
5. We all have one more place that needs a cleaning: bathroom, car, other closet. Pick one and be done!

Step 2: Trim the Fat
6. Donate everything you have left from Step 1. There are many MANY other people out there that can put to use the things you are not.
7. Check your food labels & get rid of the things no one should have: trans fats & aspartame.
8. Get a large water bottle for daily use: 32oz is great, 64oz is what you'll need in a day, and 20oz should be the minimum smallest size.
9. Find or make a playlist (iTunes, Pandora, Spotify, cassette tapes, whatever) that will help you relax after a stressful day.
10. Take just 1 minute each day this week to remind yourself of all the things you've accomplished so far, and all the things you will continue to accomplish this year.

Step 3: Add some eats
11. Add or eat 1 piece of fruit each morning during your work week. Apples and bananas are convenient. Berries are yummy & full of antioxidants. Melons & cantaloupes have a very high water content and usually the least calories.
12. Find a vegetable you would like to add or eat more consistently in your diet, and figure out a couple ways to prepare it that you like (raw, grilled, slow cooked, baked, with pepper? olive oil?)
13. Think of an easy, healthy, go-to snack (less than 150 cals) that you can keep in your car or desk at work whenever hunger strikes that can save you from making poor drive-thru or vending machine choices. This could be a handful of nuts, trail mix, dried fruit or a fiber bar.
14. Remember that water bottle you got in Step 2? Use it daily. I like to freeze half of it overnight & fill the rest up in the morning to have cold water all day. Add some fruit or lemon juice if you like.
15. If you choose to have dessert on occasion, find a healthy alternative option. My favorites are frozen Greek Yogurt bars, Soy or coconut milk desserts, and sorbets. Enjoy most of these guilt-free desserts at less than 100 calories.

Step 4: Get Connected
16. Sign up for MyFitnessPal: www.myfitnesspal.com
17. Talk with a friend or family member that has had success in reaching their health or fitness goals.
18. Find a health or fitness website that interests you.
19. Sign up for daily emails for tips and ideas from an online magazine that interests you.
20. Download a free exercise app for your phone.

Step 5: Put Your Connections to Use
21. Try logging your food every day for a week in MyFitnessPal
22. Find a friend, family member, coworker or classmate to engage in some form of exercise with. This can be as simple as a single 30 minute walk.
23. Find a healthy recipe online that you'd like to create this week.
24. Think of an inspirational quote for your week.
25. Do an exercise from one of the apps you downloaded on your phone.

Step 6: Review & Reinforce
26. Look what you did in Step 1. Redo anything that needs to be reinforced.
27. Look what you did in Step 2. Redo anything that needs to be reinforced.
28. Look what you did in Step 3. Redo anything that needs to be reinforced.
29.  Look what you did in Step 4. Redo anything that needs to be reinforced.
30. Look what you did in Step 5. Redo anything that needs to be reinforced.

Step 7: Substitute
31. Replace 1 non-water drink during your day with water or unsweetened tea.
32. Replace cow's milk with almond, rice, or organic soy milk.
33. If you drink alcohol, have a glass of red wine this week instead.
34. Replace all white sugar in your house with stevia.
35. Replace all processed white pasta in your house with whole wheat, organic rice, quinoa, or vegetable pasta.

Step 8: Move
36. Walk 10 minutes 5 days this week.
37. Do 20 squats or 20 lunges once a day for 5 days this week.
38. Find a 10 minute YouTube video of Pilates or Yoga to end your day with.
39. Try a 20 second plank. Try to increase your hold time by 5 seconds each day for 5 days.
40. Find a 5 minute arm workout online and do it.

Step 9: Daily Life
41. Get a planner (paper or online.)
42. Make a grocery list for the week. Only purchase and eat things from that list.
43. Schedule a 30 minute time, 5 days this week in your planner where you will do some form of exercise.
44. Drink a minimum of 64 ounces of water per day.
45. Eat a fruit of vegetable with every meal.

Step 10: Last steps
46: Designate 1 cheat day a week for your meals. Follow your healthy habits the other 6 days of the week.
47: Pledge to not put knowingly harmful ingredients into your body (aspartame, BHT, trans-fat, etc.)
48: Get a minimum of 60 minutes of strength training per week.
49. Find a workout buddy or consistent fitness motivatior.
50. Do something nice for yourself this week. You earned it!

Saturday, January 10, 2015

Detox Water Recipes for the New Year!

Hello and happy 2015!

I hope you all enjoyed your holidays and vacations and what have you, and I celebrated another year of being 21 while away as well. Now that it's January (and spring semester starts next week) it's time to get back on track!

I'm sure most of you, like me, ate amazing awesome food this past month. Oh, the deliciousness. I'm also sure most of you, like me, saw the scale creep up a couple pounds. Not to worry! In fact, I plan for a 3-5lb gain from the end of December til the first week of January (when I visit Las Vegas for my birthday and eat at the best of the best with no regrets.)

Let's not do anything crazy now. Don't go jump into fad diets or crazy cleanses or the next popular pill hype. Let's do simple, easy things here and there that will produce positive changes along the way! Let's drinks more water!
And super charge it while we're at it!

Here are some ways you can get the most out of your h2o: 64 ounces a day is the goal!
Remember: When using fruit or herbs, it's best to let them marinate overnight in the water, or at least a few hours.

  • Morning Detox: Green tea with honey, lemon, a dash of cinnamon & a pinch of cayenne
  • Simple Detox: 8oz water, a shot of apple cider vinegar, and 1/2 a teaspoon of organic maple syrup 
  • Spa Detox: Ice water with sliced cucumber and a squeeze of lime
  • Afternoon Pick-Me-Up Detox: Water with green apple and cinnamon
  • Better than Juice Detox: 2 cups water, 1 cup 100% cranberry juice, 1/4 cup lemon juice, sweeten naturally (honey, stevia, etc.)
  • De-stress Detox: Berries & mint leaves in chilled water.
  • Evening Detox: Hot ginger tea with 1/2 a shot of apple cider vinegar and honey